Reflections on Lent 2026

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Lent is upon us, and I have something to tell you. I recently posted on Instagram about idolatry and my own struggle with addiction, which came upon me while I was writing about Alyssa’s struggles in The Better Thing. I was hesitant to be specific because I knew some of my followers may think poorly of me, and others may laugh and think it’s not a big deal. But I must decrease, that He may increase (John 3:30). And hope that someone can be challenged or encouraged by this confession.

I’ve been struggling with a video game addiction. To a specific video game—Stardew Valley. It doesn’t contain explicit or violent content, but it is designed to make you keep coming back. It has beckoned to me to cultivate my seasonal farm at every free moment, forsaking checkbook balancing or homeschool prep or the growing pile of clothes that need mending. It has occupied my thoughts far more than a game should. Seeing anything farm-related (or fishing or mining-related) makes me think of my virtual world. It tempts me to forsake the real world for a false sense of productivity and connection. It promises restoration and relief. And it leaves me feeling empty and irritated. Every. Time.

Now, I’m not saying this game is bad or that it is sinful to play video games. But for me, this game has a hold on this story-loving heart that is inordinate. If you turn to anything other than God for your purpose, meaning, and restoration—it’s an idol.

So this Lenten season I have chosen to fast from Stardew Valley (I know, some of you are still laughing) and desserts (with one exception of celebrating my son’s birthday)—another morally neutral thing I tend to overdo and turn to for restoration. And a week in, it’s hitting me hard.

A friend shared this prayer from a past Lent devotional, and it put words to my struggle.

Whatever demands your idolatrous attention, remember these three things:

1) Jesus knows what it’s like to be tempted

2) God has grace and strength enough for you

3) He will always provide a way out

For we do not have a high priest who is unable to sympathize with our weaknesses, but one who in every respect has been tempted as we are, yet without sin.

—Hebrews 4:15

No temptation has overtaken you that is not common to man. God is faithful, and he will not let you be tempted beyond your ability, but with the temptation he will also provide the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it.

—1 Corinthians 10:13

May those who are waging war find victory in Christ 🤍